When Fear Triggers You: Finding Faith in Fearful Moments
Fear happens to all of us. A word, a wound, a moment - something sets us off before we even realize it. David, the man after God's own heart, knew what it was like to be triggered by fear. His emotions nearly destroyed him, but they also led him back to God.
What if your triggers could point you to God instead of pulling you away?
What Does Fear Trigger in You?
We all experience fear differently. For some, fear triggers endless news scrolling. Others hesitate making decisions because they're afraid of making things worse. Some panic about deadlines, convinced they won't measure up. Many dread difficult conversations or simply want to escape their troubles completely.
The important question is: what does fear trigger in you?
Emotional triggers reveal where we need God's healing the most. Fear is not the opposite of faith - it's more like the valve of a tire or the end of a balloon. It's simply the trigger that can either let air in or out. God doesn't want us to be defeated or deflated by fear.
What Are People Most Afraid Of Today?
According to recent research from Chapman University, these are the top fears in America:
- Corrupt government officials (65.2%)
- People I love becoming seriously ill (58.4%)
- Cyber terrorism (58%)
- People I love dying (57%)
- Russia using nuclear weapons (55.8%)
But we also fear more everyday things like public speaking (29%), spiders (26%), tight spaces, needles, and even ghosts.
David's Story: When Fear Overwhelms
In 1 Samuel 30, we see David face one of his greatest fears. When he and his men returned to their home base at Ziklag, they discovered the Amalekites had raided it, burned everything, and taken their wives and children captive.
"David and his men wept aloud until they had no strength left to weep." (1 Samuel 30:4)
The situation grew even worse when David's own men, bitter about losing their families, began talking about stoning him to death. David was completely surrounded by fear and loss.
How to Respond When Fear Triggers You
What did David do in this moment of overwhelming fear? The Bible tells us: "But David found strength in the LORD his God" (1 Samuel 30:6).
Fear is natural, but it should drive us to God, not to despair. When you have a flat tire, you don't keep riding on the rim - you go somewhere to get it fixed. Similarly, when fear deflates your faith, you need to go to "the pioneer and perfecter of faith" (Hebrews 12:2).
Here's how to respond when fear triggers you:
1. Stop the leak first by prayer, not panic
David immediately turned to God: "David inquired of the LORD, 'Shall I pursue this raiding party? Will I overtake them?' 'Pursue them,' God answered. 'You will certainly overtake them and succeed in the rescue.'" (1 Samuel 30:8)
Notice David didn't ask if they would be successful - he simply sought God's direction. In crisis, prayer should come before panic.
2. Admit your fears openly to God
In Psalm 55, David cries out: "Save me, O God, for the waters have come up to my neck. I sink in the miry depths where there is no foothold... I am worn out calling for help."
Don't hide your fears from God - be honest about them.
3. Recall God's past faithfulness
Remember Psalm 23? "The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing... Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me."
When fear triggers you, remember how God has been faithful in the past and speak it out loud.
4. Respond with action, not inaction
David didn't just pray - he acted on God's direction. He pursued the raiders and recovered everything that was taken: "Nothing was missing: young or old, boy or girl, plunder or anything else they had taken. David brought everything back." (1 Samuel 30:19)
The Result of Turning to God in Fear
When David turned to God in his fear, something remarkable happened. Not only did he find personal strength, but his example influenced those around him. The same men who had been ready to stone him followed him into battle.
What do your family and friends see when you're afraid? Do they see you acting in faith, spending time with God, and seeking His direction? Or do they just see you continuing in fear?
In Psalm 56:3-4, David writes: "When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise—in God I trust and am not afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?"
Life Application
This week, I challenge you to identify your fear triggers and use them as prompts to turn to God. When you feel that familiar anxiety rising, pause and pray: "God, take away the fears I'm not supposed to have and inflate me with the strength to do the work you've asked me to do."
Ask yourself:
- What specific fears am I carrying that God never intended me to bear?
- When fear triggers me, where do I typically turn first?
- How might my response to fear be influencing those around me?
- What past examples of God's faithfulness can I recall when I'm afraid?
Your emotional triggers reveal where you need God's healing the most. Instead of letting fear deflate your faith, let it drive you to the One who can fill you with courage, peace, and purpose.
Remember, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-discipline (2 Timothy 1:7). When fear triggers you, let it trigger a turn toward God.