Introduction
As we approach the holiday season, life can become a whirlwind of activities and obligations. From Thanksgiving preparations to Christmas shopping, our schedules fill up quickly, leaving little room for reflection and compassion. This week, we explore the importance of slowing down and making time for what truly matters: showing love and compassion to those around us.
The Princeton Experiment: A Lesson in Compassion
What Happened at Princeton?
Recently, researchers at Princeton University conducted an experiment with theology students. These students were divided into two groups: one tasked with preparing a talk on job opportunities after college, and the other on the Good Samaritan. As they walked across campus to deliver their talks, half were told they were running late, while the other half were told they had plenty of time.
The Unexpected Encounter
On their way, the students encountered a man in distress, slumped by the entrance of the building. The results were telling: only 10% of the students who believed they were late stopped to help, compared to 63% of those who thought they had extra time. This experiment highlights how our perceived busyness can affect our willingness to show compassion.
The Good Samaritan: A Biblical Perspective
Revisiting Luke 10:25-37
The story of the Good Samaritan is a powerful reminder of what it means to love our neighbor. In the parable, a man is attacked by robbers and left for dead. A priest and a Levite both pass by without helping, but a Samaritan stops, tends to the man's wounds, and ensures he receives care.
The Lesson
The actions of the Samaritan contrast sharply with those of the religious leaders. Despite any potential busyness or prejudice, the Samaritan chose to show compassion. This story challenges us to examine our own actions and priorities.
The Impact of Busyness on Compassion
The Modern-Day Struggle
Many of us feel rushed and exhausted, especially during the holiday season. According to research, 40% of people aged 20 to 60 feel rushed all the time, and 50% of women feel exhausted daily until their late 50s. This constant state of busyness can prevent us from noticing and helping those in need.
Real-Life Examples
Consider how often we avoid eye contact with someone asking for help, or how we prioritize our schedules over showing compassion. These actions reveal a deeper issue: our busyness is limiting our ability to love and care for others.
How to Slow Down and Show Compassion
Practical Steps
1. **Slow Down**: Recognize that you don't have to do everything. It's okay to say no to some activities and commitments.
2. **Get Away**: Take time to retreat and reset. Jesus often withdrew to lonely places to pray and recharge.
3. **Be with Jesus**: Spend time in prayer and reflection. This will help you realign your priorities and focus on what truly matters.
Life Application
A Challenge for the Week
This week, challenge yourself to slow down and make time for compassion. Reflect on the following questions:
1. How will you slow down, rest, realign, and enjoy God's blessings?
2. How will you get away to connect and be with Jesus?
3. How will you bring Jesus into the lives of everyone around you?
Conclusion
As we enter this busy season, let's remember the true meaning of the holidays: restoring relationships and showing love and compassion. By slowing down, getting away, and spending time with Jesus, we can make a meaningful impact on those around us. Let's make this holiday season less about hurry and more about celebrating our faith and sharing God's love.